Hammond Family

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Sunday, February 15, 2009

Emily's Experience on Earth




It's been almost 4 weeks since Emily passed away. We're doing okay. This week was easier then last week. We of course miss Emily, but it's comforting to know that she's very happy and aware of what's going on right now. We were very touched by everyone who attended her funeral, here and in Washington and all of the cards and emails we've received. It's good to know that she's with family in Washington right now-Robby's Grandma's are both buried near Emily. Lily is helping to keep us happy. This weekend we went down to Corpus Christie on the Gulf Coast, which was a lot of fun. We'd never been there before, and we had a good time introducing Lily to the beach. I'll try to get pictures on of it sometime soon.


Robby spoke at Emily's funeral and gave her life tribute, and while he was preparing for it felt impressed to write a poem, which is not like Robby! He really felt like he needed to write it from Emily's perspective. I know that many of you who read this were not able to attend either funeral, so we thought that we'd share it with you.


Emily’s Experience on Earth

Before I was born and I still lived in Heaven,
Heavenly Father explained how life would be.
He said that it would be full of challenges and trials,
But that I would have a family who loves me.

I would have friends and loved ones who would do all that they could,
To make sure I was joyful and happy.
And when I asked him what my purpose on earth would be,
He smiled, with a tear in his eye, and simply said “You’ll see.”

My life on earth had a difficult start,
I could no longer see nor hear.
But it didn’t take long to understand,
That my parents loved me so dear.

They stayed at the hospital for the first seven weeks,
And had faith that I could breathe on my own.
And eventually the wonderful day came,
They were able to take me home.

I made so many friends along the way,
I was able to learn so many things.
And although I had my share of pain and struggles,
I felt the joy and the love that the Gospel brings.

I have a Mother, who sacrificed everything she could,
Who did her best to keep me healthy and strong.
I have a Father, who provided me safety and peace,
Who’s whistling and roaring helped me as my life moved along.

I have a Sister, who loves and cares for me,
Even though she liked to pull my hair.
Who when the time came for me to die in their arms,
Gave my parents peace with her happy stare.

I have grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins,
Who always treated me as one of their own.
I have classmates, friends, and fellow 18th Chromosome family,
Who reminded me that I’m never alone.

Through all of my challenges and obstacles overcome,
I began to realize my mission.
There would be so many people whose lives I could touch,
Even without hearing and vision.

And now I can tell them at the end of my earthly life,
That God has a plan for everyone.
That because of the sacrifice of his Son, Jesus Christ,
We can return to him in glory and perfection.

Now I can run, and see, and hear,
I can talk, and help, and serve.
I can help others know that the Gospel of Christ,
Will lead them to the happiness they deserve.

As a final request to all who know me,
As we part, at least for a while:
That when they think of Emily Hammond,
They share with me a laugh and a smile.

18 comments:

Janica said...

Thanks for posting his poem, I have been meaning to ask you if I could have a copy. I don't know if I'll ever read it without getting choked up, it's so beautiful. We love you guys!

cornter said...

Thanks, it's amazing how beautifully simple the gospel is and how much comfort that simplicity brings - once again you made me cry, but my heart is full. Can't wait to get together this week!

Barlow Fam said...

Yes, thank you. The poem was beautiful, I will never forget the love that was shared at her funeral. Thank you for letting us be a part of Emily's life. She is such a blessing to us all.

Jon and Jacque said...

Thank you for sharing that poem. It is very touching. You both are a real example of faith and charity to me. Always remember the message of Alma 7:12.

Amy Jo said...

Beautiful poem. Thanks for sharing it with us.

Aleena said...

Oh what a beautiful poem! You are a very special family. Love you!

Jenny said...

what a beautiful poem. thanks for sharing it, as well as other thoughts about your sweet emily.

Hoenes Family said...

That gave me the chills. I can't believe Robby isn't a regular poet. That was very well put. We will continue to keep you in our prayers.

Gallant Family said...

That poem was perfect. I think Robby did a wonderful job and I think Em would agree. We love you guys!

The Burnah Clan said...

very very nice...

Suzanne Bjornn White said...

Hey cuz. That is such a sweet poem. I really wish I could have come to the funeral. I think that both of you are such amazing parents. You gave Emily such a wonderful quality of life and in return she has blessed your lives with her sweet spirit. I love you Camille and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brian Adair Fam said...

That is a beautiful poem!! Thank you so much for sharing it, especially since we weren't able to be at either one of the funerals. We love you!

Ginnie said...

I really wish we could have been at the funeral. I was tempted to just drop Chad off at the airport to get him to come. But all the logistics hadn't been worked out.

You know, I've never even met the two of you, let alone Emily. But I've always been so impressed by you... especially, Camille, as a mom. It's so hard for me sometimes to be a mom to Cameron-- when his temper flares or he screams or just doesn't want to obey. I can't imagine having a child that can't hear or see, one that can't walk, etc. and also having a baby to take care of. I've always been so impressed and encouraged by your example.

I'm glad you feel a little comfort and peace through all of this. Your family has always been in our prayers. Thanks so much for your example.

Janalyn said...

What a wonderful poem for a very wonderful girl. I'm glad I could read it. Thanks for a good cry and smile.

Beckie said...

The poem was beautiful. I couldn't get through it without crying. Thank you for your beautiful posts.

Laura said...

What a lovely tribute. You have been in our prayers mucho these past weeks. I am inspired by the faith you have displayed! Thank you for sharing. We send our love.

Jessica Wille said...

Thank you for posting this poem! I think it is so beautiful and so representative of Emily and her life. Robby did a great job in writing it!

Tyler & Michelle said...

What a sweet poem that is and how true it is. You guys' spirit is amazing and an example to me.